It's so damn annoying but you must pursue your desires anyway!

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It's so damn annoying...

To want something for YOURSELF and feel like you are being RESENTED & judged because of it.

I know mama... I been there before. it SUCKS!

To be in a millennial woman with HUGE ambitions, dreams & goals, but at the same time, married with children as if you were in your 40's. It's almost feels like a paradox sometimes.


The thing is though, we gotta move past that BS contradiction anyway and pursue our dreams & desires.. even when it doesn't make sense to the ones we love. I like to say... be TUNNEL VISION with what you want & the goals you desire to accomplish.. that is LITERALLY the ONLY WAY you will be able to allow yourself to RECEIVE and ENJOY IT.

You are NOT SELFISH because you want more outta life.
You are not WRONG for investing in yourself & your Happiness.
and You are MORE THAN CAPABLE of having everything in life that you want. AND be a good mama & spouse.. who ever said we have to choose one or the other?

It can only happen when you LISTEN TO YOUR OWN HEART and follow through with your desires.

IT ALWAYS STARTS WITH HONOURING YOUR DESIRES MAMA.

And like I tell myself & my clients all the time - By you investing in your own happiness, joy and fulfillment as a woman, it will ALWAYS pay DIVIDENDS to your family, relationship and over-all well-being!

Choose to ignore the guilt trips, the resentment from those who don't understand and STAND IN YOUR POWER.

YOU ARE WORTHY OF YOUR DESIRES.

Let me say that ONE MORE TIME......

YOU ARE WORTHY OF YOUR DESIRES.

Just please GO for them mama, with all your heart and know you are doing the right thing..

 

Love,
a mama who is also on the journey of seeking-out her own Pleasure, Passion & Joy...