"I lost the SPARK I had as a little girl due to motherhood"

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How true does this statement ring for you mama?

Over the past several weeks, after fully announcing my new niche and focus of coaching for Young Mommy Fabulous, I have gotten so much confirmation that my work is so needed. I cannot even count on my 2 hands, how much moms I have come in contact with that have expressed to me that they truly desire & value this type of support in re-discovering that internal SPARK, that inner feminine radiance and joy they once had as a little girl but somehow lost within motherhood.

I know this feeling all too well because I was also that mom not too long ago.

I got married & had both my kids before the age of 25. I was literally just coming into my own journey as an adult woman when I fell in love and decided to start a family.

When I really think about it, I didn’t truly get the chance to fully explore who I was as an adult woman… with needs, desires, dreams and goals, before I took on the roles of wife and mama. I completely had to switch my focus into being a nurturer of others. Therefore neglecting myself in the process. (And I say this with no resentment or regret from where I am now because of my choices!)

But the thing is… no matter what age a woman becomes a mother, she often gives up pieces of herself without even realizing it.

  • Her self-expression
  • Her deepest desires and ambitious goals
  • Her feminine radiance and sensuality as a woman
  • Her powerful sexuality and magnetic attraction

You see, she BELIEVES that she has to “retire” these things. That there is “NO ROOM” for them within her any more. She also believes that she has to bury her desires and wants, and replace them with her family’s needs… you know, to be that “AMAZING MOM”.

Yet.. when a woman does this…. She loses the most important part of herself.

Her SPARK.
And guess who will be affected by this loss, besides herself?

Her family.

They end up getting the left-over “pieces of her”. They get only HALF of the woman she really is and desires to be. She is less expressive of her thoughts, needs and desires. She becomes scared of indulging in something she dreamed of as a little girl, because she fears that if she gets a “taste” of it now, she will feel regret for not following through with it earlier and resentment that she “can’t” do it fully the way she wants to now.

However, I am here to prove this way of thinking and living wrong mama.

I desire to RE-INTRODUCE modern moms around the world to the powerful, Radiant, & MAGNETIC woman she truly is within and always have been. I am here to help her re-discover that “little girl” and bring the pieces of her that she left behind, back into her current reality.. Busy mama and all.

You CAN feel that SPARK again.
You CAN experience PASSION, FUN, ADVENTURE & PLEASURE again.
You CAN be whoever the F--- you want to be…. And STILL be an AMAZING mom & spouse
.

I am here to remind you and support you on how that looks like.

You spark hasn’t been lost darling. It just needs to be unburied & STRENGTHENED again… and we can do that through PLEASURE, DESIRE-SEEKING, JOY & FEMININE RADIANCE, all pieces where I guide my "mama-clients" through in my signature program, "Sacred Radiance".

If you at all resonate with this post, and have some inkling to re-kindle that “lost” flame within you, then I invite you to continue this deep transformation & conversation within my private FB community here. Made for millennial moms like you & I.

xo,
    Ro